who am i to judge?

who am i to judge a "friend" who married his spiritual adviser who's more than 15 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM? maybe he's crazy. maybe she's desperate. maybe they're doing "God's Will." maybe something happened between them and they felt guilty about it so they thought about appeasing their conscience by marrying each other. maybe they wanted something to happen between them so they decided to get married so they can do it guilt-free. maybe they're really in love. maybe, maybe not. i don't know. i can't say. i don't know the situation they're in. i wasn't invited in the wedding. i wasn't even told about the wedding. the wedding was apparently on a need-to-know basis. WHY?! why would you not want others to know about your wedding?

so, who am i to judge?

i'm just a blogger. all i can do is blog about it, wish them luck in their marriage (they're gonna need lots of it), and hope that in time, i would learn to understand what was going on in their mind.